【媒體報導：晴報】湖景邨倫常命案｜綜援單親媽疑管教壓力爆煲斬子跳樓亡專家：單親家長2種常見心態易釀悲劇-香港單親協會

【媒體報導：晴報】湖景邨倫常命案｜綜援單親媽疑管教壓力爆煲斬子跳樓亡專家：單親家長2種常見心態易釀悲劇

2023-12-29 15:18

<p style="margin-bottom:27px; margin-left:0px; margin-right:0px; margin-top:27px">&nbsp;</p> <section contenteditable="false" data-arttype="img_1" data-attr="[{&quot;img_link&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;lnk_wrap&quot;,&quot;link&quot;:[{&quot;val&quot;:&quot;&quot;}]}}]" data-insertafter="true" data-readonly="true" style="margin:27px 0;"> <section class="atrWidget widget_img_1 addTools" data-ratio="custom" data-slectratio="1,1.5,1.3333,1.7778,1.6,custom" data-uploadimage="1" data-viewmode="0"> <section class="j_sortable"> <section class="sortItem"><a href="javascript:;" style="display: block;" target="_blank" title=""><img alt="152451_J7mb7h.jpeg" data-bigsrc="/data/uploads/hkspa20160225sean3678e2a22229407/images/article_component/135467/20231229_152500_7vm6KF.jpeg" data-default="/resource/img/widgets/article/default/img_1.png" src="/data/uploads/hkspa20160225sean3678e2a22229407/images/article_component/135467/20231229_152500_NcXKJc.jpeg" width="100%"></a></section> </section> </section> <section class="desWrap" contenteditable="true" style="text-align: center;font-size: 14px;color:#999;padding-top: 6px;"> <p class="imgdes isplaceholder" placeholder="圖片描述，不輸入則不顯示"></p> </section> </section> <p><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; color:#212529; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.48px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px">屯門湖景邨今日（29日）發生一死一傷倫常命案，事件成因疑與單親綜援媽媽管教子女壓力有關。有關注單親家庭組織接受《晴報》訪問指出，基層單親媽媽「望子成龍」心態普遍，亦傾向將子女學業視為「唯一人生目標」，容易埋沒子女學業以外專長之餘，亦可能限制自身發展，建議單親媽媽可循兩大方法作期望調整。</span><br> <br> <span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; color:#212529; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.48px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px">湖景邨湖畔樓一名單親媽媽今日凌晨疑因學業問題與17歲兒子爭執，期間疑以菜刀及鎚傷兒，及後墮樓。消息指案中死者為55歲陳姓單親媽媽有領取綜援，現職家庭主婦。死者被指對子女管教甚嚴，疑因兒子學業問題導致壓力爆煲，釀成慘劇，案件確實起因有待進一步調查。</span></p> <p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; box-sizing:border-box; color:#212529; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.03rem; line-height:2rem; margin-bottom:1rem; margin-top:0px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px"><strong style="box-sizing:border-box; font-weight:700; width:auto">基層單親媽媽「望子成龍」觀念普遍</strong></p> <p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; box-sizing:border-box; color:#212529; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.03rem; line-height:2rem; margin-bottom:1rem; margin-top:0px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px">單親媽媽在育兒及賺錢養家較難取得平衡，部分家長容易將子女學業表現視為人生唯一目標。單親協會家庭總幹事余秀珠接受《晴報》訪問時表示，單親媽媽基於家庭及經濟背景不同，對子女學業要求亦各異，惟基層單親媽媽「望子成龍」心態仍相當普遍，一旦子女學業表現未如理想，便容易成為親子關係破裂、家長壓力爆煲的導火線。</p> <p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; box-sizing:border-box; color:#212529; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.03rem; line-height:2rem; margin-bottom:1rem; margin-top:0px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px"><strong style="box-sizing:border-box; font-weight:700; width:auto">2大心態易致單親媽媽壓力爆煲</strong><br> 對子女投放過份期望，以及失婚後自我價值低下，容易令單親媽媽壓力累積。要避免上述情況，余秀珠認為單親媽媽應適當給予子女發揮空間，以免子女因學業未如理想而遭受太大挫敗感。<br> 另一方面，家長本身亦需作適度期望管理，宜透過做兼職或參與義工工作重投社會、多與同路人接觸，有助理解學業成績人人有異而不應過分苛求，擴闊社交圈子、重投社會亦有助單親媽媽重拾自身社會價值，自然不容易將所有期望投放到子女身上。</p> <p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; box-sizing:border-box; color:#212529; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.03rem; line-height:2rem; margin-bottom:1rem; margin-top:0px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px"><strong style="box-sizing:border-box; font-weight:700; width:auto">單親媽做義工拓展圈子 容許子女自由發展走出困局</strong><br> 余秀珠分享協會曾協助案例，指有一位單親媽媽原本對兒子學業極為重視，惟兒子本身學業成績一般，並主動提出中三後輟學投身社會，母子因而多次爭執。該媽媽經協會輔導後，願意讓步讓兒子「自由發揮」，同時透過義工工作與其他單親媽媽接觸，理解同路人遭遇並重拾自我價值。其兒子打散工後了解職場環境及知識重要，經轉介下進修並擔任電梯維修學徒，覓我穩定工作並帶來成功感，該媽媽也不再視升學為唯一成功途經，親子關係得以修補。</p> <p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; box-sizing:border-box; color:#212529; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.03rem; line-height:2rem; margin-bottom:1rem; margin-top:0px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px"><strong style="box-sizing:border-box; font-weight:700; width:auto">倡重開單親中心</strong><br> 除當事人調整心態外，余秀珠亦建議政府對單親人士提供更多支援。她認為政府目前支援側重於經濟津貼，建議可以考慮重新開設單親中心，有助單親媽媽形成群體，分享問題來源及解難方法，同時令社工較容易接觸到高危個案，提供情緒支援。</p> <p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; background-color:#ffffff; box-sizing:border-box; color:#212529; font-family:&quot;Noto Sans TC&quot;,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:300; letter-spacing:0.03rem; line-height:2rem; margin-bottom:1rem; margin-top:0px; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:normal; widows:2; width:auto; word-spacing:0px"><strong style="box-sizing:border-box; font-weight:700; width:auto">逾半單親人士靠綜援過活 9成人指工作育兒難兼顧</strong><br> 據2021年香港中期人口普查，本港約有72,279名單親人士，當中共有約9.4萬名未滿18歲子女，即每名單親人士平均至少有1名子女。半島青年商會、單親協會及新家園協會於今年3月至4月期間進行網上問卷調查，收回336份有效回覆；有54%單親身訪者表示依靠綜援為主要收入、有15%為失業人士。超過80%受訪者表示因近年物價上升令生活及經濟上更感壓力、情緒較易波動，同時近9成受訪者表示無法同時兼顧工作及照顧子女。</p> <p style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; 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